Kugonana ndi mlendo kapena bwenzi latsopano kuli ndi zabwino zake. Zimawonjezera zochitika, ngakhale lingaliro la choletsedwa chotero kwa ambiri limadzutsa, kuwerengera mphamvu ndi malingaliro a mnzanuyo. Kugonana mu bar kumakhala kosangalatsa komanso kosasangalatsa ngati pabedi. Kugonana kumatako ndi kusisita kwa banjali kumayenera kuyamikiridwa ndi kulimbikitsidwa.
Anandikokera mkamwa mwamphamvu kwambiri ndipo ... Ndinakumbutsidwa nthawi yomweyo kuti ndimafuna kumenyana ndi mnzanga m'kamwa momwemo, pamene adawombera ubongo wanga kwa maola ambiri! Ndiyenera kuganiza choncho, mayiyo adavala, palibe chifukwa chowululira ubongo wamunthu!